Kay “Toby” Ann Auxter, 82, of Fremont, OH passed away on Thursday, March 17, 2022 at Elmwood Communities of Fremont. She was born January 4, 1940 in Fremont, the daughter of Sylvan “Tobe” and Kathryn (King) Babione. She was a 1958 graduate of St. Joseph High School. Toby married Larry Auxter on July 2, 1960 at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Fremont and he preceded her in death on May 4, 2001. She was a homemaker and a former member of St. Casimir Church, a member of St. Joseph Church and the Altar Rosary Society. Toby was a volunteer at St. Joseph cafeteria. She enjoyed crossword puzzles, gardening, flower arranging and traveling. Toby’s biggest joy was spending time with her family.
Toby is survived by her children, Donald (Kimberley) Auxter, Gibsonburg, OH, Lynne Wetoskey, Fremont, OH and Arlene (Brad) McCarty, Fostoria, OH; sister, Sue Babione, Fremont, OH; grandchildren, Kenneth (Sarah) Auxter, Andrew Wetoskey, Joseph Auxter, Ross Wetoskey, Erin McCarty and Ruari McCarty.
She is preceded in death by her parents; husband, Larry Auxter; son-in-law, Nolan Wetoskey.
The family would like to give a special thank you to Valleyview Healthcare, Elmwood Communities and a special thank you to Brenda Foos, who was her hospice nurse, for their loving care of Toby.
Visitation: Thursday, March 24, 2022 from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. at Wonderly Horvath Hanes Funeral Home and Crematory, 425 E State St., Fremont, OH.
Mass of Christian Burial: Friday, March 25, 2022; 10:00 a.m. at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 709 Croghan St., Fremont, OH.
Burial: St. Joseph Cemetery
Memorials: St. Joseph Church or Bishop Hoffman Catholic Education Development Fund
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Jim and Sandy McCarty
To Arlene, Lynne, Donnie and the entire family,
Jim and I loved Toby like our own family. We are so saddened by this loss of such a great lady. Our times spent with her will never be forgotten. I have a favorite picture of the three of us together, on my desk. I will treasure it always. She will be missed and always remember dearly.
With love and deepest sympathy, Jim and Sandy
Gail Lorentz
To Toby’s family and Sue – Toby was a classmate of mine and I have many fond memories of her – as I recall she worked in a florist shop and was the creator of many beautiful arrangements. When the teachers would seat us in alpha order Toby was always just close by (Babione/Bowlus). Many wonderful memories and may Toby RIP.
Gail Bowlus Lorentz
Class of ’58
Doris Krienke
I was sad to hear of Toby’s passing. She was a classmate of mine and a good friend. She will be missed and remembered dearly. My sincere sympathy
Steve & Nancy Pfefferle
Prayers to all
Jennifer Lewis Bailey
Arlene & Family,
My sincerest sympathies on the loss of your mother. May God give you all peace and comfort in your time of grief.
Wendy McCallister
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Heartfelt thoughts go out to you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Sandy & Glen Watson
Lynne, Donnie, Arlene, and Sue you have my deepest condolences on the death of your mom and sister. Toby was a classmate and a great friend. So many years playing cards together and having fun. She will be missed by her family and many friends. I won’t be able to join you for her funeral but will have you in my prayers.
Earlene & Ron Myers
Dear Donnie, Lynne, Arlene, Sue and Families ~ Wish we could be there with you to give you each a hug and support, as you lay your Mom to rest; but know that you are in our thoughts and hearts, always.
Just finished watching (through tears) the Memorial Video and what a wonderful trip down memory lane. These photos are so precious and will give you joy in the coming days to remember the good times.
Know that you all gave both your Mom & Dad such happiness and they were proud of each and everyone of you.
Take care ~ Love,
Aunt Earlene & Uncle Ron
Howard Stierwalt
Auxter family, So sad to hear of your mother’s passing. She was a very nice lady and joy to see. Deepest condolences. Howard Stierwalt